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  • Oct. 28th, 2009 at 4:02 PM
contemplating (shepherdess by Pissarro)
I've been away from the computer visiting with family (which was so, so awesome! it's been so long since I've seen so much of my family with such consistency), so this post is probably not quite as au courant as I'd have liked. But it's been lingering in my "post" file for a while, so I'm doing it. :) (Plus, this is the internet. Conversations never die, they just fade in and out and in and out and... *g*)

There was a meme going around recently a little while ago entitled, Fuck You, She's Awesome, which asked people to list the top ten female characters they loved and were tired of defending. A very cool meme, and I was all set to do it. Eagerly pulling up pictures of Scully to find the perfect image to capture the awesomeness of the very first female character I recalled being bashed in an otherwise entertaining fic. But then I started thinking about female characters I actually don't like. Female characters I knew other people liked quite a lot. Female characters I knew would make someone's list, if not mine.

It was a sort of self-check... (warning: this gets a bit long) )

Hello, Dexter. I think I love you.

  • Sep. 28th, 2009 at 2:37 PM
Awesome!
Which, considering it's a show all about a serial killer trying to make it in "civilized society", is pretty massive. Because I'm not generally a fan of shows where you're supposed to dislike the main character (the main reason I gave up on "The Sopranos"). And I'm still not. Somehow Dexter manages to make the serial killer likable. Despite everything, I find myself pulling for him. When it looks like Dexter is going to get caught/killed/exposed, I'm on the edge of my seat hoping he wins in the end.

I think there are two things the show does, and does well, that keeps me in this frame of mind: (1) They are very good at protecting Dexter, making sure that, even while his character pushes the envelope of accepted behavior, he never crosses the line; (2) They don't insult my intelligence by ignoring or sugarcoating the implications of what Dexter does, what he is.

Here there be spoilers )

So, long story short? I've got a new show addiction. :)

Oh! Bonus points! The supporting characters are awesome; there's a bit of a team-vibe going on within the police precinct; the brother-sister relationship is also awesome (Debra is ♥); and! it takes place in Miami! :D

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Women and Men and Writing (oh my!)

  • May. 9th, 2009 at 6:56 PM
art of writing
I've been thinking about this (incredibly far-reaching) topic for a while, trying to get my thoughts in some semblance of order, but it's been pretty impossible. So I'm embracing the chaos and just free writing this beastie. I'll be interested to see how it turns out! :)


Is there a distinct style difference between women writers and men writers? )


Are there types or styles of writing that one gender handles better than another? )


Are there styles of writing that attract one gender over another? )

And that's enough for now. Crap conclusion, I know. But I'm not sure I've really reached a conclusion. Let the thinking continue! :D

Crazy-passionate or passionate-crazy?

  • Apr. 29th, 2009 at 5:49 PM
Eurekaman!
So after picking up a couple of shifts and working, working, working, I got sick. :( Nothing dramatic, I'm pleased to say. Just the sort of thing where you have to haul a kleenex box around everywhere you go. But it was annoying and a bit exhausting.

(I lied; there was one dramatic part. I lost my taste!! D: We went out to dinner with friends and there was a lamb-burger with goat cheese on the menu (two of my favorite things, smashed together) and I didn't bother ordering it because I couldn't taste!! I went with pasta instead. Still couldn't taste but the texture was good... DO YOU SEE THE DRAMA?? I WAS REDUCED TO TEXTURE!!)

Being not in the mood to do much that involved thinking (I feel like I've been so detached from lj) I watched a whole heck of a lot of Joe Flanigan on YouTube. (An aside: A nice thing about fanning over two completely different actors is I can fangirl according to mood. *g*) I think I've seen just about all of his (many) pilots and have decided 3 things )

I also watched Flanigan's appearance on "Chelsea Lately" last year. He was very charming and such and Chelsea was very Chelsea and there was a moment where she asks him about crazy scifi fans who believe this stuff is real )

Giving SGA some love...

  • Feb. 11th, 2009 at 4:39 PM
taking names
I've been feeling a lack of Stargate:Atlantis love and it's gotten me down. But! I refuse to go gently into that dark night! I will misquote poetry if I have too! Or... I could just write about something I love about SGA. Probably less painful that way...

Here's something I adore: The soldier/scientist relationship. They didn't invent it (now I'm wondering who did?), but boy they do it well. Currently there are two episode openers that are vying for my "most favorite episode opener ever!" spot. Unsurprisingly, they both illustrate the interplay between the soldier character and the scientist character and all the loveliness that relationship has to offer. all the lovely details to follow )

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Saw Taken; Had some thoughts...

  • Feb. 7th, 2009 at 9:04 PM
blocked (...railway by Manet)
So I just saw the movie "Taken", wherein Liam Neeson plays a daddy out to save his little girl. If you turn your brain off, it does its job as an action movie. It's when I started thinking that the problems started piling up. major spoilers )

Huh. So this got a bit long. :)

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On Moral Compasses and things...

  • Feb. 4th, 2009 at 3:27 PM
reading in tree
The fanfic moratorium is over! :D I did fairly well, except... I stopped by the bookstore. *sheepish grin* But still, I think I've managed to pull myself out of lurking-mode. Also? I've read "Watchmen". Of which I have thoughts.

Okay, there will now be spoilers regarding Watchmen, Avatar, and Harry Potter. Vague spoilers, but consider this the warning of the paranoid. )
McKeller kiss
So I was skimming the comments on [info]xparrot's poll post, and I was surprised to realize I stand pretty much alone on an issue: I've enjoyed the burgeoning romance between Rodney and Jennifer and I think it's been well handled. Seriously...it'll only give you heartburn )

Someday, I'll learn how to spell "colleagues". (It has a ridiculous amount of vowels, you've got to admit.)

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How I fell in love with Stargate:Atlantis

  • Nov. 4th, 2008 at 4:04 PM
Elizabeth smiles
This post has been bubbling away in the back of my mind for a while now. Pretty much since the moment I tried to explain my new-found love for Stargate:Atlantis to a friend of mine... and failed utterly. :D Seriously, I stumbled and stuttered and it all ended in a lot of mutual blinking and a quick change of topic. Because, to be perfectly frank, I had no idea why I loved SGA so. I just knew I did. Of course I wasn't content to leave my SGA-love as the great mystery we will never speak of again. So I thought deep thoughts. These are them )


Even more importantly.... Happy Birthday to [info]seductivedark and [info]xparrot!! Boy, did you guys pick a significant day to be born! :D

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Not great tv, but not offensive either...

  • Sep. 8th, 2008 at 2:38 PM
action hero
I was reading this post by [info]cesperanza, and it was really interesting, and it made me think. But I also realized, I honestly wasn't offended by Whispers. I expected to be offended, I was braced for it. An all girl away team as the super-unique-show-hook? How could I not be offended? Here's how: have the female soldiers be soldiers; have the female scientist be a scientist. It's actually kind of easy (though sadly not done as often as it should be), and the show managed to do it.
episode spoilers and such )

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Elizabeth smiles
 
 So we're catching up on our Doctor Who's, and just finished watching the two parter The Sontaran Stratagem and The Poison Sky (4x04 & 4x05 for those keeping track that way)
action hero

So I've been reading this really looong article by Dan Simmons about genre fiction and the friendship between Henry James and Robert Louis Stevenson.  (It also talks about the friendship between Henry James and HG Wells, but I've just gotten to that part.  It's, um, really, really long.)  It's a fascinating article so far, and I recommend it to anyone interested in such things.  Here's a link.

There's a specific part that got me to thinking, though.  It's about the largely absent women (and girls) from the traditional boys adventure stories.  And it got me to thinking about Stargate: Atlantis (with some mentions of Peter Pan and Harry Potter eta: ooh, and Star Wars!) and the way women are portrayed in those stories, and how being a mother-figure is kind of a kiss of death in some ways.

Dan Simmons wrote:

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James could have been speaking about science fiction or other future genres when he pointed out that heroines were almost totally absent from Robert Louis Stevenson's fiction. “The idea of making believe,” wrote James, “appeals to him much more than the idea of making love.
I think of this as the Donald Duck Universe aspect to our SF and adventure genres up to recent years – a world in which there are no important women, no families to speak of (certainly none of the restrictions that women and parents and families set upon us in real life), and where all the boys are nephews to the older men who take them on exciting adventures.
Though he takes such an interest in childish life, he takes no interest in the fireside,” wrote James. “To his view the normal child is the child who absents himself from the family-circle.”
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Elizabeth smiles

So the husband and I are getting caught up on our TiVo, and we've finally seen the season end to Torchwood.   And it got me to thinking...  Jack Harkness is kind of a crap leader, and he might get some benefit from taking a page or two out John Sheppard's book.

(Major spoilers through 1x13 "End of Days" for Torchwood, but nothing plotty for Stargate: Atlantis to follow)

WWJSD? )

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